You're Worthy

So there is this show, "Being Mary Jane" on BET and that Mary Jane Paul is very inspiring. First season of Being Mary Jane I noticed all of the post it notes all around her house with affirmations on them. If you aren't familiar with the show I'll tell you what you need to know: Mary Jane is trying to find herself basically and in doing so she finds her self under different men. This is a way to show insecurity in a woman. Hence why she has affirmations on her walls to remind her she's worthy. 

So, I'm 16 (17 on April 25th whoo whoo) and as any teen girl I'm finding how to love myself. I'm a young lady so I won't be doing like Ms.Mary Jane and crawling under men to find my love, but what I did take from her journey are the post-it note reminders. 

Having to look these reminders in the face everyday I wake up is mentally positioning me to come back from a few recent set backs. In life things happen that damage and bruse us and sometimes they aren't always avoidable. I learned that for me to grow into the princess God has designed me to be I need to think and speak like a princess. 

All of my life I've lived by a lesson my Auntie Sharon taught me long ago after a cousin of mine called me a fatty or something to that nature. She said: "tell him sticks and stones may break your bones, but words will never hurt you." 

That's the first time I had known of such a thing and this state of mind has pushed me to where I am now. 

If God didn't say it it doesn't matter. Good, bad, cute and ugly. What people on earth has to say about you does not determine your worth. As long as you know you are amazing that's all that matters. You are highly favored no matter how hard you may fall, just know where to turn when you want to get back up. 

       Looooove you always, Jazzmine. 

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